圖書一
圖書目錄
《成熟的人生·寫給女性的中告·林肯傳》目錄：
成熟的人生
序言/8
第一篇 勇於承擔責任
第1章不要將責任推被別人
第2章絕不尋找任何藉口
第3章面對困難無所畏懼
第4章擺脫生活中的不幸
第二篇 用行動證明自己的成熟
第1章堅定的信念是行動的基礎
第2章先分析再行動
第3章積極行動是成功的基礎
第三篇 如何保持精神健康
第1章你是世界上獨一無二的人
第2章嘗試著喜歡自己
第3章永遠不要做順從主義者
第4章不要做令人討厭的人
第5章學習是走向成熟的良方
第四篇 婚姻是成熟心靈的選擇
第五篇 友誼有助於促進成熟
第六篇 老有所為
寫給女性的忠告
林肯傳
《人性的優點·快樂的人生·偉大的人物》目錄：
人性的憂點
序言本書是如何寫的。為什麼要寫這本書/6
第一篇 了解憂慮的基本攀實
第1章活在“完全獨立的今天”
第2章消除憂慮的魔法公式
第3章憂慮會使人短命
第二篇 分析憂慮的基本技巧
第1章解開憂慮之謎
第2章如何減少生意上50%的憂慮
第三篇 如何改變憂慮的習慣
第l章消除思想上的憂慮
第2章不要為小事而垂頭喪氣
第3章平均機率可以戰勝憂慮
第4章接受不可避免的事實
第5章讓憂慮“到此為止”
快樂的人生
偉大的人物
《人性的弱點·美好的人生·演講與口才》目錄：
本書將幫你達到的八項技能
從本書獲得最大教益的九條建議
人性的弱點
本書的形成，為什麼是由戴爾·卡耐基寫成的
第一篇 人際交往的基本技巧
第1章要想采蜜，就不要踢翻蜂巢
第2章與人交往的秘訣
第3章激發他人的強烈需求
第二篇 讓別人喜歡你的6種方法
第1章這樣做你就會到處受歡迎
第2章產生良好印象的簡單方法
第3章牢記他人的名字
第4章如何成為優秀的談話家
第5章如何讓別人對你感興趣
第三篇 創造奇蹟的信
美好的人生
演講與口才
內容簡介
《卡耐基全集(套裝全3冊)》包括了《成熟的人生·寫給女性的中告·林肯傳》《人性的優點·快樂的人生·偉大的人物》《人性的弱點·美好的人生·演講與口才》。如果你想通過閱讀本書獲得最大教益，有一個比什麼都重要的、必不可少的前提條件，就是無止境的、深入學習的欲望，一種強烈的提高你的為人處世和社會交際能力的渴望。除非你具備了這種基本的必要條件，否則即使再多的規則對你來說也毫無意義。你要經常性地提醒自己：“這些原則對我非常重要。我之所以受人歡迎，我之所以幸福，我的收入之所以不斷增加，大部分都是因為我所具備的為人處世的技巧。”
先快速閱讀每一章，以獲得整體概念，但是不要消遣式地瀏覽它。如果你想克服憂慮。提高自己為人處世的技巧。就應該將讀過的內容再詳細閱讀.這才是既省時間，又能取得效果的好辦法。
在閱讀本書的時候，經常停下來思考自己所讀的內容。要問自己什麼時候、如何運用本書提出來的各項建議。這將更有助於你取得成功。
閱讀的時候手中備好一支紅筆，當遇到一條你認為可以採用的建議時，就在旁邊劃一條線做記號。
如果你想從這本書中獲得真實持久的教益，就不能匆匆地瀏覽一遍就不再看了。而是要在仔細閱讀之後，每個月都溫習一次，這樣你才會注意到深藏在自己身體內部的、可以大大改進的潛能。只有通過這種長期有效的溫習與實踐，你才會習慣性地、不知不覺地套用這些原則。
抓住每一個可以運用這些原則的機會，將本書作為你的工作和生活手冊，用它來指導你解決日常生活中遇到的各種問題。國每當你違反某一項原則而被朋友抓住時，給他一點錢，以示對自己的懲戒，使你的學習成為一種活潑有趣的遊戲。
每個星期對你的進步做一次檢查，問自己曾犯了什麼錯？有何改進？有何教訓？將來怎么做？
常寫日記，將你運用這些原則所取得的成果記下來。要儘量寫清楚具體的姓名、日期和結果，這樣將會激勵你更加努力。當你在多年之後再翻看這些日記時，必然會覺得其樂無窮！
圖書二
內容簡介
卡耐基全集卡耐基全集英文版，是把卡耐基最著名的三本書《人性的弱點》《人性的優點》《語言的突破》依據權威的版本合編為一冊,為讀者提供卡耐基的最精彩的語言和思想精華。卡耐基的英文原版書已經出版了許多，但還沒有一本書容納了這么多的內容，並且價錢低廉。其實如果擁有了這樣的一本書，基本上就擁有卡耐基的精髓。惟一目的就是幫助你解決你所面臨的最大問題：如何在你的日常生活、商務活動與社會交往中與人打交道，並有效地影響他人，如何擊敗人類的生存之敵——憂慮，以創造一種幸福美好的人生。當你通過《卡耐基全集(英文版)》解決好這一問題之後，其他問題也就迎刃而解了。
圖書目錄
HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING
Sixteen Ways in Which This Book Will Help You
How This Book Was Written——and Why
Part One Fundanmltal Facts You Should Know about Worry
Part Two Basic Techniques in Analysing Worry
Part Three How to Break the Worry Habit Before It Breaks You
Part Four Seven Ways to Cultivate A Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness
Part Six How to Keep from Worrying about Critidsm
Pert Seven Six Ways to Prevent Fatisue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High
Part Eisht How to Find the Kind of Work in Which You May Be Happy and Successful
Part Nine How to Lessen Your Fimancial Worries
Part Ten "How I Conquered Worry"——32 True Stories
THE QUICK EASY WAY TO BFFECTIVE SPEAKING
編輯推薦
《卡耐基全集(英文版)》：How to Win Friends & Influence People? How to Stop Worrying and Start Living? The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking.
文摘
I shall never forget the night, a few years ago, when Marion J. Douglas was a student inone of my classes. （I have not used his real name. He requested me, for personal reasons, not toreveal his identity.） But here is his real story as he told it before one of our adult-educationclasses. He told us how tragedy had struck at his home, not once, but twice. The first time hehad lost his five-year-old daughter, a child he adored. He and his wife thought they couldn'tendure that first loss; but, as he said: "Ten months later, God gave us another little girl——andshe died in five days."
This double bereavement was almost too much to bear. "I couldn't take it," this fathertold us. "I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat, I couldn't rest or relax. My nerves were utterly shakenand my confidence gone." At last he went to doctors; one recommended sleeping pills andanother recommended a trip.
He tried both, but neither remedy helped. He said: "My body felt as if it were encased ina vice, and the jaws of the vice were being drawn tighter and tighter." The tension of grief——ifyou have ever been paralysed by sorrow, you know what he meant.
"But thank God, I had one child leff——a four-year-old son. He gave me the solution tomy problem. One afternoon as I sat around feeling sorry for myself, he asked: ' Daddy, willyou build a boat for me？' I was in no mood to build a boat; in fact, I was in no mood to doanything. But my son is a persistent little fellow！ I had to give in.
"Building that toy boat took about three hours. By the time it was finished, I realised thatthose three hours spent building that boat were the first hours of mental relaxation and peacethat I had had in months！
"That discovery jarred me out of my lethargy and caused me to do a bit of thinking——thefirst real thinking I had done in months. I realised that it is difficult to worry while you arebusy doing something that requires planning and thinking. In my case, building the boat hadknocked worry out of the ring. So I resolved to keep busy.
"The following night, I went from room to room in the house, compiling a list of jobs thatought to be done. Scores of items needed to be repaired: bookcases, stair steps, storm windows,window shades, knobs, locks, leaky taps. Astonishing as it seems, in the course of two weeksI had made a list of 242 items that needed attention.
"During the last two years I have completed most of them. Besides, I have filled my lifewith stimulating activities. Two nights per week I attend adult-education classes in New York.I have gone in for civic activities in my home town and I am now chairman of the school board.
I attend scores of meetings. I help collect money for the Red Cross and other activities. I am sobusy now that I have no time for worry."
No time for worry！. That is exactly what Winston Churchill said when he was workingeighteen hours a day at the height of the war. When he was asked ff he worried about histremendous responsibilities, he said: "I'm too busy. I have no time for worry."
Charles Kettering was in that same fix whea he started out to invent a self-starter forautomobiles. Mr. Kettering was, until his recent retirement, vice-president of General Motors incharge of the world-famous General Motors Research Corporation. But in those days, he wasso poor that he had to use the hayloft of a barn as a laboratory. To buy grocodes, he had touse fifteen hundred dollars that his wife had made by giving piano lessons; later, he had toborrow five hundred dollars on his life insurance. I asked his wife if she wasn't worried at atime like that. "Yes," she replied, "I was so worried I couldn't sleep; but Mr. Ketteringwasn't. He was too absorbed in his work to worry."
The great scientist, Pasteur, spoke of " the peace that is found in h'braries andlaboratories." Why is peace found there？ Because the men in libraries and laboratories areusually too absorbed in their tasks to worry about themselves. Research men rarely havenervous breakdowns. They haven't time for such luxuries.
Why does such a simple thing as keeping busy help to drive out anxiety？ Because of alawwone of the most fundamental laws ever revealed by psychology. And that law is: that itis utterly impossible for any human mind, no matter how brilliant, to think of more than onething at any given time. You don't quite believe it？ Very well, then, let's try an experiment.
Suppose you lean right back now, close your eyes, and try, at the same instant, to thinkof the Statue of L~erty and of what you plan to do tomorrow morning. （Go ahead, try it.）
You found out, didn't you, that you could focus on either thought in turn, but never onboth simultaneously？ Well, the same thing is true in the field of emotions. We cannot bepepped up and enthusiastic about doing something exciting and feel dragged down by worry atthe veery same time.
One kind of emotion drives out the other. And it was that simple discovery that enabledArmy psychiatrists to perform such miracles during the Second World War.
When men came out of battle so shaken by the experience that they were called"psychoneurotic', Army doctors presen~oed "Keep 'em busy" as a cure.
Every waking minute of these nerve-shocked men was filled with activity-usually outdooractivity, such as fishing, hunting, playing ball, golf, taking pictures, making gardens, anddancing. They were given no time for brooding over their tern"ole experiences.
"Occupational therapy" is the term now used by psychiatry when work is prescribed asthough it were a medicine. It is not new. The old Greek physicians were advocating it fivehundred years before Christ was born！
The Quakers were using it in Philadelphia in Ben Franklin's time. A man who visited aQuaker sanatorium in 1774 was shocked to see that the patients who were mentally ill werebusy spinning flax. He thought these poor unfortunates were being exploited——until theQuakers explained that they found that their patients actually improved when they did a littlework. It was soothing to the nerves.
作者簡介
作者：(美國)戴爾•卡耐基(Camegie.D.)
